You My Friend

Most of us have best friends or good buddies, wadever u call it. Perhaps having sumthing in common or thinking in the same 'frequency' makes you all close. Most of the time, our best friend is someone who is of the same sex as us.

But, can a guy and a gal be best friends and not fall in love with each other? They call this type of relationship... 'platonic'. Which means there is no desire for one another.

Possible? I find it hard to be able to achieve. Surely either the guy or the gal will fall for one another. I mean, when it comes to relationship with the opposite sex, there' sparks that bound to fly even though it may be just one sided.

If it were me, i dun tink i could have a close relationship with the opposite sex. I sure fall in love one. Why? Becoz i easily fall in love one. Haha!!

Some may not agree wif me on this. They probably has gone through it and knows the other party does not have any feelings. But how do u noe? Did u ever asked the other party? The other party may say 'no' but how do u noe he or she is telling the truth? He or she could be hiding his or her feelings.

I'm sure either the gal or the guy will have at least some kind of feeling towards the other. But, most dun dare to confess. Why? Becoz of rejection. Rejection will make the other party feel uneasy with the other party once the love is confessed. As a result, the friendship is compromised.

It is perhaps this fear of rejection and the risk of losing a friend that keeps people from confessing their feelings with the other party. Thus making us think it is possible to have a 'no-love' relationship.

Most, no matter how heart-breaking it may be, treasure friendship.