Men!

Men Can't be Trusted! Men are all the Same!

I've heard this sentence from many people (women of course lah) be it in real life or reel life (dramas, etc..). Now, how true is this? I dun usually like to write about such issues on my blog but i believe women would like to know what a man says from his own perspective.

If i were to say that it is not true, women would think i'm siding with my own kind. On the other hand if i say that it is true, aren't i condemming my own kind? Haiyoh.. So 'leceh' lar... The actual answer is that, there is no answer. It depends on how u see it. And there are many kinds of trust. Relationship? Money? Safety? For this post, we'll stick with relationship lah hor.

This stigma of 'Men Can't be Trusted' usually appears after a personal experience. U noe lah... Girl meets Boy. Girl Falls for Boy. Girl 'kena' Play Out by Boy. Girl Heartbroken. Bla bla bla... As a result from such experience, these gals just dun trust guys. Well just becoz a guy 'plays' u out doesn't mean all guys would do the same!

OK. Let's be frank. Guys will always be guys. They have individual weaknesses. They do look at girls. Some admire them. Some go further than that. We are all HUMANS! Duh! As you can see, i've used the word 'individual' and 'some'. Which means not necessarily 'all'.

For those who still believe that men can't be trusted, let me ask u this question. 'Do u trust ur Dad?' Parents offer the best examples to their children. U dun have to tell me ur answer. There's no right or wrong. It's ur life. U have to make ur own judgment.

And for those who keep asking 'Where are all the good men?"

Well.......



they're all MARRIED! Haha!!