Why Men Look At Women?

I guess most girlfriends or wives don't like it when their Man look at other woman. Am i correct?

Well, today, kor-kor will tell u why we men look at women.




There are 2 short answers and 1 long answer. Which one u all want to hear first?

Kor-kor give u long answer first k:

If men do not look at women, do u think they would have looked at u in the first place? Do u tink u would have been noticed? Do u think u've ever stood a chance? In fact, men not only look at women. They also look at other men, cats, dogs, cars, motorcycles, toys.... how come nobody's complaining?

Men and women ARE and forever WILL BE different. Be it physically or emotionally. Only the treatment should be the fair. There will always be differences between these two species. There will always be things where a man will never understand about a woman and vice versa no matter how much logical excuses or reasons there may be. (even after reading this post some may still not understand but that's normal)

For instance, men up till now do not understand why women need so many pair of shoes! And women does not understand why men must fart so loudly!

Some may say, how come a man who already has a beautiful wife/girlfriend still look at other woman?

No matter how beautiful the man has as a wife or girlfriend he would STILL look at other woman. Is beauty an excuse for keeping a man from looking at other woman? Everybody is different. You can't possibly have all the beauty in the world in one person no matter how perfect the person may be. No matter how pretty, handsome, clever or attractive u are, there WILL always be someone better than u and that someone also suffers the same fate.

Are men never satisfied with what they have?

In reality, do you? Do you think a million dollars would ever be enough for you? Or would u prefer to have more? Nothing is ever more than enough. Greed you might say but that's what everybody has in them. Heck! A man could marry all the women in the world and still thinks it's not enough!

Looking is as harmless as it can get. No physical contact. No emotional attachment. It's up to each individual where to draw the line. Looking DOES NOT mean Wanting.

Does looking at other woman means they are being unfaithful?

What is faithfulness in the first place? Is looking considered unfaithful? Although jealousy is a sign of love and care, try to limit it lah. Dun go overboard. Anything that is excessive is never good no matter how good it is. Problems may arise from it.

Are men being cheeky due to looking?

Not necessarily. And in most cases are not. Looking can be for many reasons although most of the time it's due to the attractiveness of the one being looked at. Other possible reasons could be sexiness. It's a sign of admiration of the opposite sex.

What do men look at?

Depends on individual again. A pretty face, eyes, legs, bust, hair are just some of the things men look at to name a few.

Should you feel sad, angry or hurt that other people are being admired by your husband/boyfriend?

Should you? I do agree it's hard to shelve that feeling since you might feel intimidated by this and that's very normal. But do remember that u were also admired by him (consider urself in his elite range) some time ago and that's all due to him looking at you i.e A Woman! Admiration is a common human behaviour based on individual preference. Is it wrong to admire beauty?

Wished that you could stop ur boyfriend/husband from looking at other woman?

And how are u going to achieve that? Do you think you can monitor his actions 24/7? He still needs to go to work. Needs to interact with people. Hmmm... U can try keeping him locked up in the store. That might work. Poor fella. Haha!

And in all fairness, even women who are attached or married also look at other men! As if we dun noe. It's just that women dun do it often or too obvious. But men dun kick up a fuss. Why? Because men always believe that they can be better or outperform the other man. Ego? If you say so. But that kind of thinking prevented men from having all the uneasy feeling which they consider unnecessary.


Ok. Now here's the first short answer:

Got eyes. See lor

Second short answer:

It's just natural.


P.S Kor-kor don't look at women. Women look at kor-kor. *wink